"Deep in my heart, I know there’s no promise I’ll be free from trouble in this life. In fact, I’m usually either getting out of trouble, currently in trouble, or about to meet trouble around the next corner."...... I hope you'll stick around for my "Lucille Ball/Gracie Allen" adventures. It promises to be a wild ride.
having a conversation with my best friend
this morning - a texting conversation – and,
after completing our conversation, realized just how lucky I was to have such a good friend. I can tell Girlfriend anything and she will
not get mad at me, well maybe a little upset at times. My words may not be what she wants to hear, (or I, her) but we respect the other’s thoughts and opinions.
and I have been besties for a few years now, and because we share many of the
same personality traits, we know each other quite well,
sometimes too well. And, that can lead to trouble at times. But, on the other
hand, we also know how (or when) to push or not push the other’s buttons.
We know what will send
one of us over the edge causing the other to make a hasty retreat, hoping for a
white flag. We tell each other how we see it, even when we know it will be hard
to hear. Everyone needs a person like that in their life. We all want to look
at life through finger smudged rose-colored glasses and we need someone to take
them off every now and then. and clean them. As I told her just recently (before she laughingly accused me of being poetic), I am here to plants seeds of thought, to help clear the cobwebs. That, is what friends do.
When I have
a dilemma, she plays Devil’s Advocate. When Girlfriend is having a
problem, I take my turn; and even though I am secure in our friendship, you
will sometimes find me hiding out behind the pecan tree because I may have
pushed too far and feel her wrath buzzing around my head like a bee. I go in for
the sting and then offer sweet iced tea.
Let me add
that texting is an easy way for two people who do not like confrontation, to
have a sensitive conversation. Sometimes I come in like a gentle summer breeze, while other times I am like a Southern thunderstorm, like a bull in a china shop. I have no
mid-way; I’m either not engaged or full out – nostrils flaring and pawing
huffs. There is no doubt you have to be a special person to handle me.
I have a
few other close girlfriends who wander in and out of my life depending on how
busy our lives are, but Girlfriend is a constant. Since we met, she has been my
girl rock, my girl port in a storm; someone to celebrate achievements with,
someone to pick me up when I’m down, cry when I cry, and laugh when I laugh, or
make me laugh. We’ve seen each other through some rough patches when we didn’t
think the storm would break long enough for the sun to shine through. Those are
the times we reached for the other and choose to dance in the rain.
Let's just say, here in the
South, we take our friendships seriously.
you? Is there someone in your life that you trust with your deepest, darkest
thoughts? Do you have a best friend, someone who inspires you? (I’m talkin’
about someone other than Hubby.)